Science has confirmed what women have known for millennia, this clitoris matters when it come to the female orgasm. Sure, there are women out there that can come from penetration and have vaginal orgasms. There are also women that can cum from having their nipples played with. But a recent study has come back with some pretty interesting statistics that you should know about. Keep these little nuggets of knowledge in the back of your mind the next time you are talking sexy with a little hottie on one of our phone lines or if you are getting it on in real life, use some of these techniques to give your lover an orgasm that dreams are made of.
A team of researchers polled 1,055 18 to 90 year old women and came back with some pretty substantial statistics. Of all the women polled, only 18 percent felt penetration alone was sufficient to make them orgasm. The translation here is to remember to tell you phone lover how you are paying attention to her clitoris! Who knows, if you tell you what you are doing she may even let her fingers mimic your commands.
Seventy-five percent the ladies polled said that they like rhythmic motion around the clitoris and that light to medium pressure was best. So if you are talking about this with a phone friend, be sure to get descriptive. Tell her how your fingers are working her and if you are doing it in real life, be gentle and keep a nice pace. The key take away here for both amazing phone sex and real life intimacy is that communication is key! When enjoying hot phone sex talk to your partner and be specific. Ask them how it feels and if they like it. Encourage their pleasure. Same goes in real life. Use some of these tips but remember to ask your partner how she is feeling, unless her moans tell you everything you need to know!
